Does your child often get out of touch with other children? It's very important to know how to socialize!

I don't know if parents have observed their children's social skills. Some children can quickly integrate into the group and know how to get along with children. However, some children are not able to get along with the children, and even resist playing with others, and do not know how to share, face and socialize. If parents find that their children have such a situation, they should remember to help develop their children's social skills as soon as possible so that they can have a foothold in society in the future.

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Analyze children's social skills

If you want to know what kind of social skills your child is in, you should observe more and get answers from daily life so that you can find ways to help your child.

1、 Trial type

When children see a child of the same age that they are interested in, they will want to play with each other, try to share their beloved toys with each other, or put forward some questions to attract each other's attention, and express their own opinions when they do their own things. All these are because children want to try to contact each other.

2、 Mandatory

Children are more powerful. If they want to communicate with others, they must agree with themselves. If they don't agree, they may have tantrums, make a scene, even hit and scold others to respond to each other.

3、 Evasive type

Seeing strangers or children of the same age, children do not want to pay attention to each other at all, and even escape and fear contact with each other. They try not to let others pay attention to themselves, and they will escape from other people's initiative to show kindness or say hello to themselves.

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Why don't children socialize?

A child's social skills will affect his character, bold or cowardly, and the child does not know how to socialize, often because of his living environment.

1、 Family reasons

1. The elder dotes on the child too much, and the grandparents satisfy and dote on the child unconditionally. They are obedient to the child's requirements. This will make the child not know how to solve the problem in social communication, because he knows that if there is anything, he can find the elder, so he does not like to think.

2. A child's personality is actually related to his or her growing environment, and his or her imitation learning ability is relatively strong. If someone in the family is too introverted, it will lead to his or her introversion. For example, if the parents just give in to something, the children will not dare to try. They don't know how to respond to the initiative of their partners, let alone how to communicate.

3. Children often spend more time alone and have less contact with collective life. Naturally, they don't know how to communicate and get along with others, how to integrate into a group and how to be accepted.

2、 Education issues

1. Most parents deal with the negative state of their children's education, such as always evaluating their children's introversion, shyness and lack of courage, which will form memories in their children's minds.

2. When children want to play with other children, they may not know how to socialize and the rules of the game at the beginning. If parents blindly favor their children, they will set a wrong example for them, making them not understand the rules of survival and social skills.

3. Parents do not teach their children how to share with their peers or provide help to others, but only teach their children how to do things that are beneficial to them, which makes them selfish and naturally do not know how to get along with others.

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How to help children participate in social activities?

If children want to have a foothold in society in the future, parents should cultivate their children's social skills from childhood, help them participate in social activities, and be useful to society in the future.

1、 Ask the teacher about the situation

Parents can ask the teacher more about their children's situation in the kindergarten to see if they are not sociable in school. If so, they can put forward some suggestions to the teacher, so that the teacher can arrange the children to participate in game activities with other children, and ask the teacher to help teach the children how to get along with the children.

2、 Invite the children from the neighborhood to sit at home

If the children are not very sociable in the kindergarten, parents can also try to invite a group of children to sit at home, tell the children in advance, let the children build an "amusement park" for the children at home, and prepare some snacks, and then tell the children the importance of being a little host, let the children understand the hospitality, which is also a very important part of social interaction.