Advocate making career friends

Chinese people love making friends. Professor Kong said, "it's a pleasure to have friends from afar!" it shows that making friends is a pleasure.

However, the ancients suffered a lot from their friends. Not to mention the fengchengdong who forgets his interests, sells friends for glory and betrays his faith in Zhou Ren's return to the house, nor the Cao Cao who "would rather teach me to bear the people of the world than the people of the world to bear me". Even the so-called "sincere" friends often lead people astray: if you make gambling friends, you will lose all your money; If you make fair friends, you'll get drunk; If you make friends with robbers and hooligans, you will gang up and rob. One wrong step makes a hundred difficult steps. Such historical lessons are common.

Nowadays, the wind of making friends is also prosperous! Friends who love playing, friends who love playing cards, friends who love drinking, friends who love playing the piano, friends who love writing poetry, etc.

However, I think we should still advocate making friends in business, because for an ambitious person, it is always necessary to do some business in the world, and doing business needs the help of someone, especially enthusiastic and selfless friends.

The same interests and hobbies, playing together after work, killing time and entertaining spirit, of course, are blameless, but we should master moderation. For example, playing cards. It's a good thing for friends to get together at the weekend, play a few games, exchange information and eliminate fatigue. But if you play all night, night and night, and then gamble with money to win or lose, and your interest in work is faint and depressed during working hours, it will become a bad thing. What's more, some so-called friends have bad habits and similar tastes. They date privately day and night, interfere with work and damage their personality. This kind of relationship is actually tarnishing the word "friend".

What our times need is friends in business. The warm help from friends in study and work and the warm care from friends in life are the necessary conditions for one's growth. A fence with three stakes, a hero with three helpers, a successful career is a true friend. The friendship of friends formed in climbing the peak of knowledge together, exploring the mysteries of the universe together, and creating the road to success will be profound and lasting.

It is a prominent feature of career friends to share weal and woe and happiness. When you encounter difficulties at work, he will lend a helping hand; When you have a little achievement, he will remind you in time; When you go the wrong way, he will criticize you directly; When you succeed in your career, he will be as happy as you. Such friends are the driving force on the way forward, the catalyst in scientific experiments, and the sailing wind in the sea. Such friends are numerous in our revolutionary ranks, and their noble style is admirable.

Making friends is a choice. Master Kong said, "those who benefit have three friends, while those who lose have three friends". The three friends who benefit are those who make friends with frank people, honest people and knowledgeable people. The three friends who lose are those who make friends with flatterers, face-to-face flatterers and rhetoric. He advocates making friends with the former, the former is a responsible attitude towards friends, and the latter is selfish. Just think, when some so-called friends use sweet words and small favors to please you, pull you into the partnership and make you lose heart, what is his responsibility for the success or failure of your career?

As the saying goes, "do you want to know this person, just look at what friends he makes!" may our young people make friends for their career and make more high-level career friends.

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