Really good people are not popular

Murakami Chunshu said: not all fish will live in the same ocean.

The movie "Shawshank Redemption" said: "some birds can't be caged. Every feather is covered with the glory of freedom."

It is not difficult to find that in my life, there are always some "fish flying in the sky" and some "birds that can't be caged". They are so dazzling and different. They are all excellent and have their own life.

Therefore, people are envious and jealous at the same time; Imitating and giving up. Once we reach a watershed, excellent people will become better and better, while mediocre people will only become more and more mediocre.

Gradually, I will also see another cruel truth: really excellent people are not popular.

Really excellent people have "personality".

I, that's me, different fireworks.

Although, every time I hear this sentence, I will think of singer Zhang Guorong, and this is his prediction of his own death. But still very obsessed, if you can live so free and easy, it is also a great blessing in life.

My good friend a Zhi is a very talented person. Because he is good at writing materials, he has been "dug" from a small community worker to a municipal organ for ten years. In the past ten years, he has written materials for the two main leaders, and his ability level has been unanimously praised from top to bottom. Naturally, verbal praise and praise are constantly heard. However, whenever there is an opportunity for promotion and appointment, the leaders always don't think of him.

In the twinkling of an eye, ah Zhi is already in his early 40s and no longer has any hope for promotion. He began to learn to refuse some things. Apart from the large material, which was still regarded as his responsibility, ah Zhi said clearly, "don't come to me again."

Working with computers in front of the office for a long time made him suffer from serious shoulder and neck disease, physical overdraft and failure in his official career, which made him shift the focus of life to loving himself.

Besides being good at writing materials, a Zhi also likes photography and outdoor sports. Gradually, his weekends have become outdoor sports days. Every time he updates his circle of friends, they are familiar but particularly beautiful scenery. A Zhi always has a unique insight and looks at the world from different perspectives.

Sometimes, he would add some prose or small poetry to his photography works. Gradually, many works appeared in the newspaper. Within a few years, a collection of essays was published.

A Zhi went farther and farther on the way of writing, which opened a new world. He became a columnist, wrote constantly, and was often invited to give lectures, which made him famous.

When people in the unit are still fighting for positions and interests, he has been watching coldly. Because he has successfully created a second career, he can't be busy in all his spare time. Where will he have the mind and opportunity to sulk.

Eat with real skills, travel all over the world by craft, and never go out of date at any time. "Heroes don't ask the source". For really excellent people, his "personality" often becomes the most talked about topic. It is no longer derogatory, but sincere envy.

Really good people, some envy, some slander.

Fish and birds always live in different spaces, and so do people.

My best friend a ping called and said that she was very depressed today. One morning, she was scolded by her boss, and she used such abusive words as "do it or not!".

A ping firmly believes that there are countless worse words from the female boss's mouth, which can be scolded at any time. However, she often bears it in silence and takes more responsibility in everything, so as to avoid a lot of unhappiness such as today's "intransigence".

Although a ping doesn't have any position, she works seriously, well and quickly, very carefully and carefully. Even if she often does a lot of extra work, she has no complaints.

No matter what kind of unit it is, people who can do things and people who can do things should be able to do things in the end. And ah Ping happens to be such a person.

Everyone appreciated a ping's steadiness, diligence and ability, but her female boss embarrassed her everywhere. Just like the scenes in film and television dramas, when they come to real life, they are bossy, arrogant, and suffocating everywhere.

After four years together, a Ping has done so many things conscientiously. In the eyes of her female boss, she is just a machine. She has caught a bad cold these two days. In addition, she still has a lot of work to finish immediately. For the first time, ah Ping refused the work assigned by her female boss. In this way, she soon attracted a lot of curses, such as "face-to-face, back-to-back" and "most able to push three obstacles".

Ah Ping really regretted why she wanted to "fight back". More and more ugly words can be picked up by female bosses. For a person who despises himself, the more he says, the more boring he is.